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Welcome! To a Place Where
Military Spouses Matter

2011 Thanksgiving Place of Remembrance

This Thanksgiving, take time to remember our Deployed Troops and their families! Not all service members will be home for the holidays; even with the return of the troops from Iraq, we do, we will, and we are going to have deployed military members spending the holidays far from home, in combat zones.

Join with me and my family as we pause to remember those who are missed and their loved ones who are missing them!

Participation in the 2011 Thanksgiving Place of Remembrace is easy! All you have to do is set an empty Place of Remembrace at your table, and when your guests gather to eat, explain it significance.

To learn more, check out the event on facebook-
at Military Wives Matter: Support for Today's Military Spouse
http://www.facebook.com/#!/events/242883775769636/

and, also on www.silentranksisterhood.com







A Poem for the Silent Ranks

Warrior

I never wore the uniform,
no medals on my chest
The band, it doesn't play for me,
I am not among the Best.
I do not march in cadence,
I do not rate salute.
I stand among the silent ranks,
our devotion absolute.

If you've not worn my shoes,
you do not know my story.
I live a life of sacrifice,
my reward a private glory.
I've wept many silent nights away,
I've kept the home fires burning.
I've worried and I've waited,
as world events were churning.

I've moved more times than you could fathom,
left more people than you known.
I've planted gardens round the world-
very few that I've seen grown.
I've grieved with new-made widows,
and had my share of scares-
when a ship or plane or man was down-
and all I had were prayers.

I am not asking for your sympathy.
(although appreciation would be nice)
I did it quite on purpose though-
I chose to sacrifice.
I'll tell you a secret now,
one you'd never guess.
About the glory that is mine,
it's just enough, no more, no less.

When you and I stand together
as our national anthem plays.
I'll fill with reminiscences
of how I spent those days.
I'll know the pain and joys again,
I'll know freedom isn't free
I'll know I've helped to pay the price

and that the anthem plays for me.

- Elizabeth Soutter Schwarzer
Wife of a United Stated Marine

Top Ten for Deployment Survival Kits

Ok- If you are in need of a few ideas for a Deployment Survival Kit- Here are my Top 10!

For the Grown-Ups:

  1. Tissues 
  2. Chocolate/Candy
  3. Tea
  4. Bath Soaks
  5. Peppermints
  6. A Candle
  7. A journal
  8. Stationary/Cards
  9. A stress ball
  10. Something Silly (play dough, a small dart board, water guns, etc.)


For the Children:

  1. A Small, Stuffed Animal
  2. Stickers
  3. Glow-Sticks, Glow-Bracelets
  4. Bubbles
  5. A Puzzle/Board Game
  6. Construction Paper
  7. Inexpensive Art Supplies
  8. Candy/Fruit Chews
  9. Silly Bands/Slap-bracelets
  10. Bookmark


I hope this list is helpful, and may it be a spring-board to help you create a Deployment Survival Kit to share!  Have fun and help a military spouse or military child dealing with deployment!  Share the love and Support a Military Spouse or military child; their deployed service member will appreciate your kindness.

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The Deployment Survival Kit

    So often, when it comes to supporting our troops, we think of sending cards, letters, and care packages to our deployed service members.  And, we all should, because our troops deserve and need our support year-round, not just during the holidays.  But, have you ever thought about surprising the military spouse or the children with a Deployment Survival Kit?

    These Kits are just as much fun to create as a care package.  And, they are just as well received and are sure to bring a smile to the recipient.  But, the purpose of the Deployment Survival Kit is to both encourage and uplift the significant other of the deployed service member. It is to help her  cope and get through deployment; it just serves as a reminder that someone cares.

    I received my first Deployment Survival Kit from a fellow military wife and my neighbor, who I was sad to say good-bye to when she had to move.  My dear friend, Elizabeth, presented me with the Deployment Survival Kit just weeks after my husband  had left.  I was feeling rather down, and the reality of deployment and the separation was starting to hit home. When she brought it over unexpectedly one afternoon, she said that she was passing along a tradition.  She, too, had received a Deployment Survival Kit, when her husband first deployed.  She shared much laughter and tears with me, as I opened the contents of the Kit.  And, while I was grateful for all of the items she chose, I appreciated her thoughtfulness, availability, and support even more. 

    I have a friend whose husband recently deployed; over the past moth, I have slowly been gathering items to put in her Deployment Survival Kit.  I am looking forward to surprising and sharing it with her next week.  My daughter is creating a smaller version for her children. I encourage you to create and share a Kit of your own, to pass along to a military spouse.  I know it will be well received.

   So, if you have never created or received a Deployment Survival Kit, I am guessing that you must be wondering what one is.  Very simply put, it is a gift bag or gift box filled with inexpensive trinkets, candy, and small personal items.  It is very much like a care package; its contents are limited only by one's budget and imagination.  My Deployment Survival Kit contained a box of tissues, chocolate, a bottle of wine, bubble bath, and a few other items. Elizabeth placed sticky notes on all of the items, with a funny description written for each.  I am going to the do the same for my friend's Survival Kit, so the chocolate won't just be  mere chocolate; it will become a Piece of Sanity to Savor. 

If you need ideas for what to put in the Kit- be sure to read the next post!  And, if you passed or received a Deployment Survival Kit- please share your story! 

God Bless Our Military Troops and Their Families! 

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